Thursday, October 26, 2006

A tragic loss... :(


With the Angels - Elizabeth Claro

No sooner did I hit 'post' then I remembered one of the main reasons that I wanted to post on my blog. The end of last week, the members of the Irish dancing community in Australia woke up to the tragic news that we'd lost one of its own. The newly crowned 2006 Australian National Irish dancing champion for the junior ladies 17 years division, Elizabeth 'Lily' Claro, died on the eve of the NSW HSC exams. (For those of you that aren't Australian, these are the annual year 12 exams for the state of NSW, a very stressful and nerve wracking time for final year high school students).


I didn't know Lily personally, but I have been rocked to the core by the loss of such a young, short life. Lily celebrated her 18th birthday just a week after she won her 5th national title. To the outside world that didn't know her, Elizabeth appeared to have everything just right. She was amazingly talented, bright, loved by everybody that met her; yet for whatever reasons that only those who were close to her could possibly know or begin to fathom, she took her own life. It brought to light the incredible pressure the young people are put under these days to succeed and to reach their own high expectations. I hope that if anyone reads this, that is either a young person struggling with the pressures of end-of-year exams, or parents/friends/siblings of teenagers....please don't feel alone. Seek help and support from those around you or professionals.

Elizabeth's passing made front page across the newspapers in Australia; in addition to the nightly news. I hope that in addition to the memory of this amazing young woman who had so much talent she wanted to share with the world; that the loss of Lily can help save at least one other young person from taking their own life. In her memory I'd like to share with you all a link to one of her final dancing performances.

Elizabeth Claro - 2006 National Champion during the 'Dance of Champions'

A quick persual of the international message boards dedicated to Irish dancing gives you only an inkling of how many people Lily touched in her short life. Hundreds of posts are pasted there recalling everyones fondest memories of her; and the general concensus is that Lily is now at peace and dancing with the angels. Our thoughts go out to her family & the Halloran dance school who have lost one of their daughters. Lastly, I hope that Milton Baar does not mind me using some of his photos from his website to allow everyone to see the beautiful soul that has been lost unto this world.


Elizabeth Claro (1988-2006) - RIP

A busy time...

Well, by the end of this entry I will have managed 2 posts in a month. Could be a lot better, and I really will try to be more frequent in my updates. So what has been happening?

With Sean & Donna's wedding (one of John's best friends from high school) this coming Saturday; Donna held her hens party at the Doomben races during Ladies Day two weeks ago. A little dubious at first with the challenge of attending with Maddy in tow (John was at Sean's bucks party at the same time), I ended up enjoying myself more than I could have imagined. I didn't win a cent but it was all for good fun. Maddy as usual charmed the socks off everyone at the event, and our biggest problem all day was feeding her in my race day outfit. For my close friend Maree, it meant dragging her to the ladies' room every couple of hours and getting her to undo the zip on my dress for me! *LOL*

I forgot to mention in my last couple of posts, that whilst I enjoyed myself at the Gold Coast visiting SeaWorld; and attending the Australia trials for the World Gymnastics Championships; by far the biggest disappointment for me in a long time was discovering very last minute that Westlife were postponing their Australian tour. We now have dates for February 2007, and I'm pretty pesimistic that we're ever going to see them; even if I have managed to secure a ticket to the Sydney show as well as the Brisbane one. Not that getting into the Brisbane show will be easy given that John decided to 'spring clean' and accidently threw out my Westlife ticket! Not to fear, I can have it replaced according to Ticketek but it's a pain in the butt to sort out regardless.

One of these days I will work out how to add little videos so I can show you some snippets of our SeaWorld visit. Maddy wasn't overly interested in the animals at this point, but she did seem to like the dolphins and the fairy penguins. The best part of the day for our little girl was probably just getting to spend time with her family...as you can tell by the photo, Maddy is just adored by her 3 1/2 year old cousin Chloe. As time goes on they're becoming very close; Maddy just loves squealing as she chases Chloe around the house. The photo was actually taken on the Sunshine Coast at Caloundra where the gym titles were held. We stayed in a lovely resort (which just so happened to be the official competitors resort so it was hilarious whenever the lifts open and the Australian head coach, Peggy Liddick, would step out) and then a friend, CJ, kindly put us up for the 2nd night.

The competition itself was a real 'splat fest'. Between four of us, we managed to film most of the competition, but with three separate age groups/levels running at the same time across 8 apparatus it was tough. By far the class of the competition was Dasha Joura, a 16 year old from Western Australia. Her floor routine to a tango from 'Mr & Mrs Smith' went down a treat with everyone, she has so much spark and character. My personal favourite, Hollie Dykes, had quite a few falls and watered down routines. Regardless, what she did, she did beautifully and she definately continues the artistry which is quite lacking in international elite gymnastics these days. (Last week was the World Championships in Denmark, and Dasha & Hollie both placed in the top 8 in the all-around event. Dasha finished in 5th place quite controversally, many avid fans felt she should have at least been in 3rd place.) Anyway, I'm blathered on enough about the gymnastics. I'm just so pleased I've gotten to see two live gymnastics events in the past 18 months; and even prouder that I could drive myself to the latest event so I wouldn't miss it.

This week has been a bit of a struggle. Madeline had been going so well with her night sleeps; even if it meant that for now she had abandoned any sense of rest in the daytime. That I could handle when rewarded with 9 hours straight sleep at night. A few days ago, Maddy came down with a cold and has been running mid-to-high fevers on and off. As a result, I think I had 5 hours sleep from Monday night through to Thursday morning. Our poor little chicken is off colour and could barely raise a smile for me when I insisted on taking photos of her yesterday. She is certainly talking up a storm, and can move around the house at an alarming pace. Maddy has also developed a taste for foods of all kinds of naughtiness. Cinnamon donuts (she actually cries when they run out!), french fries, Italian ciok, corn chips, chocolate custard. Perhaps I'm a naughty Mummy for letting her try, but she does enjoy having a taste at what Mummy and Daddy are enjoying. By far her favourite treat however, is Sesame chicken sushi. She doesn't eat the seaweed of course, but she adores the chicken. I cannot believe how much this child can swallow.

I almost forgot to mention that last week I was able to catch up with my friends Juliette; and Leanne & her son Drew from BellyBelly. Leanne and I both had our babies at the end of the year...well actually, Drew was due on Christmas Day but didn't arrive until the first week of 2006. It was lovely catching up with Leanne, and we're hoping to make it a more frequent feature of our weeks. Drew is just gorgeous...in fact I don't think the photo does the little man any justice. He is going to be such a little heartbreaker when he gets older. He's also very laid back and easygoing; as well as apparently being a fantastic little sleeper since he was born. It's been a long time since I've seen Juliette, but i'm hoping she will be able to come down from Kingaroy again soon so we can catch up properly. I'd also love to see her daughter Hannah again!

On a final note, John passed his probationary period at work with flying colours. So basically, the move to Sydney looks all set, but probably not until February 2007. They still have a lot of work to do on the Qld Newspapers project, and I do know John'll be flying to Sydney in late November for their work Christmas function. He's hoping I'll be able to come along...guess it'll depend on how generous his work are feeling! *L* I'd better fly as it's so long past my bedtime, but I'm sure I'll think of more that I wanted to post.

Sunday, October 01, 2006

Long time no post huh?

Sunday, 1st October 2006

With the dawning of the new month, and realising it's been SOOO long since we posted; I thought it was about time to let you know what Miss Madeline has been up to! :)


As you can see from the photo to the side, Maddy has been sporting her swimmers around the place. We had a 'girls' weekend away in early September when we stayed at the Nara Resort on the Gold Coast and then met up with Daddy at Sea World. We all had a fabulous time, got some great video footage of all of the animals and Maddy even went on some of the kiddy rides with Mummy.

Now a happy little GIRL (where has my little baby gone?) of 9 months, Maddy is proudly sporting 4 teeth and has decided now is the time to finally allow her poor sleep deprived parents some much needed sleep. After a week of being unsettled cutting her 4th tooth, Madeline has for the first time ever, been sleeping through the night. *Daddy and Mummy do the happy dance!*


Not happy with merely crawling (and bloody fast too!), Miss M has been RUNNING along the carpet pushing her trike in front of herself. She confidently steps between objects provided she has a hand on each, closes the sliding doors behind us too! *L* She's still loving her tinned/bottled foods as long as they don't include vegies or meat (who'd want them when they can eat Creamy Banana Porridge or Creamy Oats with Fig & Sultana?), but has decided she also likes bread, Mummy's homemade spag bog, cheese sticks, yoghurt & mashed potato.

Since she started talking, it's gotten rather difficult keeping her quiet actually! *LOL* In particular, first thing in the morning is chat time with Daddy & Mummy in bed. Maddy loves to lie back, poke open Daddy's eyes and have a little natter. Her vocabulary has extended to Mumma, Dadda, Bubba, Grandma, Nanna, Papa, Hello and Bye; the latter two including exhuberant waves.


On the home front; we don't have an awful amount happening at the moment. We're just cruising along, waiting to hear whether we're moving to Sydney in the near future. John has his appraisal in the next two weeks, so hopefully we'll know what's happening round about then. I (Bec) FINALLY (yes, I hear those sighs and can imagine the rolled eyes too! hehe) got my license a month back, so we've been galivating around the city and up to Caloundra for the Australian trials for the World Gymnastics Championships in Denmark at the end of October.


Time to go to bed and enjoy the fact that our princess is in bed; and get a relatively early night. Sorry again for being so slack in keeping this blog up to date, will try and do better I promise! :)

Love,

Bec, John & Maddy